He did it!

One of our "He did it" moments. Lucas has been consistently sitting on his own. Tatay and Nanay are so proud!

Oh Christmas Tree

Since I got married, we did not bother putting up a christmas tree. I have been married for 4 years now and my eldest is 2. My husband and I decided, it is time to have a tree. Hence, we got one.

It is now standing in the living room with no trimmings or lights. Hopefully we can decorate it and make our home look like christmas as December draws near.

Offline

I have been unreachable through my mobile number since my sim reached its end of life yesterday.

I am still happy though because I found out that it is my sim that's the problem and not my phone. Also I now know where my sim is available and that I can get my sim working hopefully within the day. I have to commend SMART for answering my calls and for helping me out ;)

One customer care officer gave me the number of the wireless centers to call while the other found the wireless center with the available sim!

Hopefully no one beats me to my sim.

Ondoy: The Morales Account

Our Sept 26 Schedule:

9-10 am Cambridge

1030-12 nn Lucas' Therapy
12-130 pm Lunch and Travel to PCMC
2pm 2D Echo

or so we thought ...

9 am Cambridge

10 am Bring Lola to church
1030 am Drive - thru at Jollibee - Rotonda

This is the receipt of our drive-thru meal before getting stranded. I was not able to keep the day's newspaper. It must have been soaked in flood water inside the car.

After bringing Tatay to Cambridge and Lola to church, Rafa and I did not not get the chance to pick up Lucas for his therapy. At around 10-11 am, we were asked to park in front of South Star Drug in C. Raymundo cor. F. Legaspi. According to the people in the area, we will just get stuck if we try to cross even further.

Around 1pm, the flooring of the driver side is wet. It was time for us to leave the car. Got out through the passenger side, carrying a hooded-Rafa, my bag, and 2 of Tatay's shirts.

Stayed in the store until past 7pm when our ride arrived. No pictures were taken since I was not sure when help will arrive and I only have 1 bar on my cellphone.

Homeschool

What is the best school for my children? I have a two-year old and a one-year old sons. Peple around me are starting to ask when are they going to school? If it were up to me, they will probably start school at around 4 years old; same time I went to school. If I were to base it on the trend nowadays, my eldest should be enrolled this school year.

I believe, and this is backed up by some experts, that studying should start in the home. The usual reason parents send their children to school early is that no one can teach them in their house. For those who are privileged enough to stay at home with their kids, homeschool them.

I found this "school" where they teach you on how to homeschool your kids. Of course they have a product to sell but I am quite convinced. My husband and I still have a year or so to decide where to send our kids. With God's guidance, we pray that we can give them the best.

Here is the site http://catholicfilipinoacademy.com/cfa/10principles.php

TV-watching guidelines for toddlers

As parents, we want the best for our babies. When our pediatrician told us that 'ideally children below 3 years of age should have no television at all', we start to read up on the topic. There are a lot of reinforcements on the benefits of having no tv. For those who found out about it a bit late, do not lose hope. Here are some guidelines to regulate tv-viewing for tots.

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The best way to handle how much television and video your toddler watches is to think of them as refined sugar: You want your child to enjoy this seductive stuff without consuming too much. So you'll need to stay on top of the time your toddler spends in front of the television. The average American child watches three to four hours a day, despite recommendations from the American Academy of Pediatrics that children should watch no more than an hour or two a day, and that children under 2 should watch no television at all.

Starting out tough from day one is the key to keeping viewing time under control. It's a lot easier to relax your standards later than it is to wean an 18-month-old from a three-times-a-day Dora or Blue's Clues habit.

Here are tips on how to use television as a learning tool.

Limit the amount of TV your toddler watches

Since your child is under age 2, it's best to keep TV-watching to a bare minimum. If you choose to allow some television, break it up into 15-minute increments. Much more than that, and your toddler's brain can shift to autopilot.

Once your child hits 2, limit his total viewing time to an hour a day — even that amount is a lot for an active toddler. You should also keep the television out of your child's bedroom and turned off during meal times.

Watch programs, not television

Rather than sitting down to watch whatever happens to be on, carefully select the program your toddler's going to watch, and turn off the set when that program is over. Record programs ahead of time, if possible, so your child can watch what you want, when you want.

A two-minute warning that a show (or the segment of it that you're letting your toddler watch) is about to end will help him transition to the next activity.

Choose calm, quiet programs

Slower-paced viewing gives your toddler time to think about what he's watching and absorb the information. Lots of action and quickly changing images will only confuse him or make his eyes glaze over.

Some research suggests that children who watch violence on TV are more likely to display aggressive behavior. Stay away from scary shows, too. Instead, choose simple programs that emphasize interactivity. The best shows are those that inspire your child to makes sounds, say words, sing, and dance.

For specific program suggestions, talk to other parents in our community about TV for kids.

Watch with your toddler

A recent study looked at three groups: children with unlimited access to television, children with moderate access to television who watched without parents, and children with moderate access to television who watched with a parent.

The last group scored significantly higher academically than the other groups. Just being there says to your child, "What you do is important to me."

Of course, many of us have moments when we resort to using television or a video as a babysitter, but when you leave your child alone with the TV for a long time, you send a signal that you don't care what he watches. If you can, bring a basket of laundry to sort or some other task into the room so you can work and watch. Then it becomes an activity the two of you can enjoy together.

Help your toddler watch with a critical eye

Explain what's going on in the show, and encourage your child to ask questions and relate what's happening in the show to his own life. If you've recorded the show or are watching a video or DVD, press the pause button as often as you need to so that you have ample time to discuss what's going on.

If you're watching a recorded TV show, you'll probably want to fast-forward through the commercials. If you're stuck watching commercials, help your toddler understand the difference between those and the show itself.

Extend the show's content with activities or books

If you and your toddler have just finished watching a Sesame Street segment that introduces a number, talk about it later and find other examples to show him. When you're setting the table, for example, you might say, "Hey, today's number was three, and there are three places to set!" Then read and discuss a book that explores numbers concepts.

These recommendations were developed with the help of Kathleen Acord, project supervisor for KQED television's "Ready to Learn," a national government-sponsored program that educates parents and childcare providers about how to use television as a learning tool.

taken from:http://www.babycenter.com/0_tv-watching-guidelines-for-toddlers_11746.bc?showAll=true

Happy 1st Birthday, Lucas

This video was lovingly prepared by my husband for our son, Lucas who had a year full of miracles and answered prayers.

More pictures from the celebration to follow:

male bonding

Here are the MORALES boys

just out in the driveway

tatay please hurry up
big grins

when your happy and you know it, clap your feet

i'm taller than you, ahiya

ayala technohub

buddies

partners in crime

mwah!

First Out of Town Trip

We were trying to recall if this trip was indeed Lucas' first out-of-town. We couldn't believe that it was his first time beyond the confines of Metro Manila.

We didn't plan much for this trip. All we know is we want a bit of R & R and celebrate. FYI, this month we celebrate our 4th year wedding anniversary, grandparent's day and Lucas' first year! Just too many reasons to celebrate to let it pass.

Thank you, Lord for Your providence and the good weather.

waiting for tatay to pick us up

such an adorable smile
mamita and the navy boys

brunch feast

Teething

Towards the end of August, Lucas first tooth is finally coming out! I felt something sharp while trying to push in some of his medicines in his mouth. He eagerly nibbled on my finger as it provided soothing relief to his itchy gums. I thank God that he does not seem too bothered by it and still maintains his very happy disposition. Wait for the pictures of his newly erupted tooth.

Way to go, Luc!

The GRASS is Green

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Photoshoot at TPC

Lucas: Proof of a Miracle

Our little Lucas had a successful heart surgery on June 10, 2009. He recovered remarkably well. An hour or so after the surgery, he was awake. In less than six hours, he was off the ventilator. He was transferred to the regular room after the mandatory 24 hr stay in the recovery room and pedia icu.

taken three days after the operation taken on the day he was discharged, five days after surgery

taken that same monday when the brothers are reunited

Lucas was admitted to the hospital twice in May and did not come home until after the surgery. His brother Rafa was so happy to see him. They are now sleeping in the same room again.

We thank all those who storm heaven with prayers for our family.

Pictures from Bill and Che's Wedding

Simulating the march that did not happen
naglakad naman sa aisle, wala lang yung arrhae
he'd take the pews any day
battery running low
warning: battery is low
with darling
second wind with kuya Joaquin and Tita Trina
members of the entourage
the bearers
i'm hungry! takbo na po ako sa reception!
yehey! we are here!
hi, i'm rafa! nice to meet you.

cerojales family

with darling

with my one and only Nanay

Rafa at work

Rafa and his video cam

Rafa and his Megabloks

His first snapshot

Playtime with Lucas

Brushing his teeth

Rafa is two

I can still remember quite vividly the day I gave birth to my eldest son. I had lain my back for 12 hours waiting for labor to progress. I cannot believe it has been two years since that time!

Rafa is now a sweet and loving kuya to his baby brother Lucas. Whenever Lucas is crying, he tries his best to appease him by offering a toy. There were instances he had to run back to the room several times just to get the perfect pacifier. When Lucas arrives from a doctor's appointment, he would rush to him and give his brother's leg a peck. He knows he is not allowed to kiss other body parts.

At two, he has lots of tricks. He loves to dance, even if it is just to his Ate Michelle humming. He sings along with whatever is on the radio. I think his current favorite is Bugoy's Pano Na Kaya. You should see him perform with his guitar. A true musician at heart! His most recent acquired skill is to play the tambourine. He usually sees a man play the instrument during the Mass. When we showed him a real one at home, he naturally knew how to play it.

He also devours his books. Just last night he started to cry when we told him that it was bed time and he has to put away his books. He enjoys looking for pictures of objects. When I asked him to look for something, he doesn't stop until he finds it. Once, I asked him to look for the duck. He turned the page, so I thought he was no longer interested. After a few pages, he pointed at a DUCK! He knew there were ducks in the other part of the book! I am so proud of my boy! He is so smart and eager to learn!

Another anecdote on Rafa: He has a set of books that comes with a box. After playing with them, he puts the books back and makes sure they are facing the same direction =) He also wipes his flash cards and sweeps the floor from time to time!

Here is one of his recent videos: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV4DgQV42dQ

Enjoy!

To my son, Happy birthday! Nanay loves you so much!

Free 325ml Select bottled water

Who among us really believe they would win in raffles, lottery and the like? I'm pretty sure most of us go through the motions of filling out the stubs, dropping them and forget. Just this morning before I tear opened the peel-off card, I asked for God's favor. Guess what? The two cards contain free bottled waters! It is really not much but the fact is I won ;-D God answers our most trivial prayers. Thank You, Jesus!